Aggression

Recently while having a conversation with someone I dig, she mentioned how some guy came onto her and was just really aggressive about it.. and i started to laugh because I always find that shit funny when dudes try real hard for girls that they just met or dont even know.. I always wonder why?.. Does dude know what hes getting into?.. does he really feel her like that?.. is it worth it?.. I understand that hormones and what not are involved but shouldnt your brain also be involved.. I feel especially in this day and age that people would care more about what they are getting into and why they are getting into it.. Thats why I respect the idea of the fck buddy.. Im not saying I have one or kno of any but I like that whole idea.. "hey look I know you, you know me, this probably wouldnt work in the long run and thats what we're after anyway.. so while we're both single consenting parties.. how about we meet up.. do this and the third.. and go our separate ways and live life.." isnt that better than seeing some chic as youre delivering soda and going hey mami you look good whats up?.. because honestly do you want the girl who responds to that?.. see i really dont have a problem with guys trying i think its smart and wish i had the balls or the same goals.. but im really mad at the chics that fall for this.. that fall for the ish.. its like damn that easy..
but really im the last one who should comment on this.. while writing this at work i was doing the same thing.. all in jest but still halfway serious... weird backstory... I work in some building downtown and i usually work nights because its easy for my school schedule plus shit isnt really going on.. Well anyway there is this lady shes at least 45 from some eastern european country and has a daughter my age and a son older than i am.. plus her husband picks her up and drops her off at work.. but every night 90% of the old men at my job flirt, comment, or stare at her... not at the face because her face actually looks eastern european ( no offense but eastern european women are very rarely sexy) but she has a BODY.. this isnt me being sexist either the lady boss at my job says "Shes got a sisters body with the face of a witch".. well anyway one day while minding my business hardly working she walks over to me and says "Boy why are you never working hard" me being the dick I am said "Cleaner I need something to work hard for.." this vulgar lady replied "would you work hard if you were working with me" and winked... Me being the man i am I turned beat red and just looked at her like "WTF" but being quick witted like i am I asked "By what do you mean" with this she laughed her maniacal transylvania laugh and said "what do you think or are you that young?".. to that i was offended and replied "Im young enough to blow your back out" yes a little much.. ya a little disrespectful.. but she questioned me in some way im still not sure how.. well this nasty old lady replied "really show me"... at that point i walked out the door to catch my breath.. Seriously how does that happen.. I think i lost my only chance at that point but now for the last three months our conversations are a bit much.. they go there and never anywhere of course but for some reason she brings that side out in me... the one where its like whatever.. say what i want..but my whole question what if shes serious.. like i would never do anything with her but what if i could.. does that mean i fall into a group.. or is it just eastern european case or Mary Kay Latournea..Anyway Im out lata homes...